This is the law of the nature. There can be moments where we all feel we are falling down. We all feel reality is stabbing us right into our hearts. When that moment comes the past feels like a dream which never happened. when reality comes to a point where it is hard to bear some goes mad while some say good bye to their lives. But life is not a simple thing to let go like that. We all have to fight for our lives. Realty can be harsh but we all have to accept it. And then we have to fight.
Reality is truth but it can create an illusion like we will never be able to get up again. But once you accept the reality you will see the illusion lying in the middle of it. Like my friend Eona Smit says 'Acceptance will soften it'. Once you accept the fact the way it is, it will soften the harshness in reality. Don't hesitate to accept the reality. It is not harsh as much as we think but can be a strength to get up again. :) cheers!!!