Monday, September 24, 2012

Ricky said ''Nobody wants to be lonely''


Nobody wants to be lonely.. Nobody wants to cry..

Ricky Martin and Christina were screaming in the radio. Is that really true?? Nobody wants to be lonely?
yeah that is true. But sometimes there can be some who likes to be alone. It is not loneliness but enjoying the moment. 
Everyone, actually not everyone but most of people I know tell that they want someone to care about them, someone to talk, someone spend time with. I know the feeling. Because sometimes in my past I have felt the same way. but can we really find someone like that?? I don't think so. 
We can't simply ask from someone to care for us, can we? We can't ask them to be with us. But there are things that we can do..


Follow the mirror rule.. 
Now what is the mirror rule?? It is simple.. Mirror will never smile with you unless you smile with it first. So smile with the mirror and mirror will smile back.
If you need someone to care about you then start caring about others. If you want someone to spend time with then start spending time with others. You can't find one unless you are going to be with a hundred. Yes.. First you have to be with hundred to find a one to spend time. And then to find the "Right One" you have to spend time with thousands of people. That is the way it is. No-one will come to you until you are going towards them. If you want somebody in your life then you have to take a chance with the world.
Expose to the world. Stop merely existing and start living your life. 


Talk to yourself.
This is what I do most of times. I talk to myself. [yeah I do.. any problem? ;)] I know it sounds crazy. but trust me it helps to understand your inner side. It helps to understand what you really want in your life. Or you can talk to imaginary friends. I have lot of imaginary friends. 


Books
This is one of the best thing to do. Read books. If there are books then I can spend years without talking to anyone. :)
In these days also I rarely talk to anyone or log in to fb/blog because I bought books from book fair recently. Time is so interesting and I don't think anyone can be alone when all the characters in a book comes to live. 

But the most important thing is no-one can find the one for you. you have to find that one or the way to get rid from loneliness. 
Cheers!!

P.S :- Talk to yourself only when you are alone, otherwise you will get shifted to a mental hospital.
Listen to the song as well.. 


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  1. "But sometimes there can be some who likes to be alone. It is not loneliness but enjoying the moment. "

    yep yep loneliness is the best moment to enjoying our past memories.....

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  2. you can spend years with your books because you love to read them. But we also have to spend years and years even we do not like very much to read them. We should find a way to make academic books interest. :)

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    1. yeah academic books.. :) but sometimes I like to read them as well.. hikz... but not as much as novels.. ;)

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  3. Hey Red, Good stuff. D'you know, unlike when I was small, (when I used to talk to myself a lot), doing so today is much safer. Thanks to cellphones, hands free sets, Bluetooth devices, no one will be concerned about your talking alone and won't try to send you to the nut house. :D
    henryblogwalker (මට භිතෙන හැටි) the Dude (HeyDude) and මගේ ඩෙනිම My Blue Jeans

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    1. hehe.. yeah that's true.. :) anyway thank you for the comment dude.. :D

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  4. මේ සිංදුවට මම මාරම ලයික්.. කාලයක් තිබ්බා රිකී මාර්ටින් පිස්සුව ඔළුවට ගහපු.. තිබ්බ ඇල්බම් ඔක්කොම එකතු කලා.. :)

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    1. හිහිහි..මට නම් එහෙම පිස්සුවක් තිබුනේ Enrique ගැන..

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